SOUL MATE!!

Once upon a time, when I was a little girl, I heard fairy tales ….about handsome princes with magical kisses, who would ride up on a white stallion and whisk the princess away to the land called Happily Ever After.

As it is..being a dreamer..(My sister calls me Alice in the Wonderland), all along, I dreamt of such a perfect picture…The Handsome Prince, A Soul Mate, till I met someone whom I thought was a Soul Mate. Then reality struck, the white stallion was a beat-up old car and the prince turned out to be a jerk and happily ever after seemed to be a never, Neverland.

Even though I had an amazing life, wonderful friends and a successful career, at  38 , I found myself still with no real prospects for romance. Lots of flings yes..but the real fairy tale prince..a Soul Mate..NO.

Then one day, like a smart and sassy princess I decided to do some research for a “Not just any soul mate..but the best soul mate ever!” And in the process I still believed that happily ever after is really possible after all.

After many such instances, my search for the Soul Mate still did not stop. In a moment of inspiration, I decided to see if all the manifestation tools and techniques I had successfully used in my business would work in my love life. The first thing I did was invest some time, energy, attention and intention into creating what I called a Soul Mate Wish List. It sounded simple on the surface, but it was hell one of an exercise. While making the list it required hanging out my heart long enough to hear what it is most desired in a soul mate. It also required a leap of faith. Once the unique goals, preferences and tastes were clarified, I trusted my gut feelings that he is somewhere around.

For me, the belief was strong and as easy as walking into her coffeehouse, Barista where I confidently order, "I will have a tall, half-caf, low-fat mocha latte, with a splash of non-sugar vanilla syrup to go." The boy smiles, writes the order on the side of a cup and takes the money.

I believed ordering up a soul mate from the universe would works in a similar way if I clearly place my order. Now, when I actually ordered, I wrote down the qualities and traits that are important to me. Some from my old flames with whom I had happy memories or friends whom I secretly adored. My Wish list was as follows:

·         Light eyed

·         Ambitious, smart and successful

·         Caring and Charismatic

·         Creative

·         Enjoys travelling, movies, music, reading and either sings well or plays some instrument

·         Emotionally flexible and available

·         Fun, funny and happy

·         Independent and loving

·         Generous (with money, time, affection, etc.)

·         Nurturing

·         Playful, Sexy and Sensuous

 Now having placed my wish list in front of the Universe and the faith…I was searching for my Soul Mate…secretly. Its been three years of my exercise, but still unsuccessful..now making me think….IS THERE A SOUL MATE AT ALL? FAIRY TALES ARE NEVER TRUE…So be happy and satisfied with what you have rather than not have anything!!!